I myself hadn't gotten beyond feeling like "get over it, that's an order" is terribly inadequate for what she's been through.

Yeah. When you get right down to it, there it is.

It really doesn't do anything to address the problem. At least with Tigh and his continuing downward spiral we're sure to see that. I hope that it's presented in a way that acknowledges Adama failed to help him when he saw he was totally fracked-up (not that I'm sure how to help him these days) rather than showing it as Tigh failing to accept Adama's "help". Not because I think that Adama needs to personally help everyone or that poor Tigh is blameless, but just because...yeah. That was a chance to intervene that went sailing out the airlock and the tragedy of that lost chance should be addressed.