I WANT TO COME AND TALK TO YOU, but my internet is too spotty. I can post comments if I wait until the connection is on the upswing, and then two minutes later I'm disconnected again. FAIL. Anyway, as always you have pretty much said anything useful I would have to say--the time is gone, and it's understandable that you're angry/sad about it, and you probably will feel better once you've taken some steps towards changing your situation. But seriously, if you feel like you and K are coming out on the other side of this huge thing, then try to appreciate that too? Because that is a huge deal, and while I know it's a thing in progress, always, just being where you both are now is a good thing, and an accomplishment for you both.
Re: job stuff, having been in a situation with only a TINY THREAD of similarity, in at least that I was really unhappy at my job and wanting a new one and feeling absolutely drained every time I left work, but not yet in a position to start looking, I'll say that I found that particular time to be the WORST; when you know you want to go, and have a semi-plan for leaving, but can't actually DO anything yet. It's just extra frustrating to be in that space. Which is kind of a depressing comment, but the point is that it will get better, this is just a bad time in the process. This time you have to remain frozen too will pass, and then it will be November and you can start taking steps. In the meantime, HUGS.
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Date: 2012-09-22 11:21 pm (UTC)Re: job stuff, having been in a situation with only a TINY THREAD of similarity, in at least that I was really unhappy at my job and wanting a new one and feeling absolutely drained every time I left work, but not yet in a position to start looking, I'll say that I found that particular time to be the WORST; when you know you want to go, and have a semi-plan for leaving, but can't actually DO anything yet. It's just extra frustrating to be in that space. Which is kind of a depressing comment, but the point is that it will get better, this is just a bad time in the process. This time you have to remain frozen too will pass, and then it will be November and you can start taking steps. In the meantime, HUGS.